This is not an Addiction, and addicts can't understand that.
What does a fisherman, a used car salesman, and a hooker have in common? They all know how to reel you in. So, when the brunette tells me that she will go get her ID updated, I give her $50. And then I believe her. Not only does she not get it, but she wants me to pick her up later because she needs money to get more shit.
Then the redhead texts me. She tells me that she really needs to see me today. When I asked why it was so important, she tells me that she really just needs to get away from everything, and begs and pleads for me to pick her up. So, after work, I drove towards where she told me to pick her up. on the way there, she says to pick her up somewhere else and that it’ll be an extra 20 minutes. I said fine. When I get to the new spot, I wait another 15 minutes before finally taking off after she doesn’t answer her phone. The cousin starts texting me. I agree to see her for 60. She said sure, just like a used car salesman. They will say anything to get you on the lot. These girls will say anything to get you face to face. I believed her. On the way to pick her up, I got a call from the other girl that only like to give blowjobs. She saying it’s that time of the month again and that she really needs $15. she does this all the time. I just ignore her. I pick up the cousin, bring her to my house, and she still refuses to show me her ID, so her videos are on hiatus. We have sex, and she pulls the old if you want to come in me that’ll be extra. She has been trained well. I end up having to give her $100, but I fully intend on ignoring her for at least a week. All of these girls think I’m made of money. The brunette texts me asking to new picked up. When I refuse, she pulls her bullshit routine saying oh but you’ll do it for any other girl. I immediately ignore this for what it really is. She’s just trying to goad me into giving her more money.
None of these girls ever understood that I don’t have an addiction like them. Their addiction demands that every day they get money to continue this lifestyle. I truly believe it’s hard for them to wrap their heads around the idea that I don’t share that ever pressing need. The frequency with which I have sex is my choice, but I am under no obligation to give any of these women money. As addicts, they simply can’t understand how someone is willing to say no to something.
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ReplyDeleteSimilarly, what does a seagull, an economic immigrant, and a drug-addicted street-(sex)worker have in common? Enough is never enough. They'll always want more. That is, of your money, for the population of our interest: those lifestyle challenged sex-workers that we ourselves are drawn to again and again (lol; I myself do feel addicted to them). And arghhh, how their asking for more can mar the sexual occasion. I always to try to negotiate the definitive total cost for all the services I know I'll shortly receive; but so often the progression of subsequent sexual activities will be punctuated with 'it'll be an extra £30 for that'. Of course one pays it. In that mid-passion state, one has to pay it; I'm sure the workers know that. I've just learnt to have bank notes of assorted denominations strategically placed in various pockets about myself, for rapid access and payment; so I can as seamlessly as possible carry-on with the encounter - with me now partaking in what I've been surcharged for. Then there's the night-walkers’ post-sex angling for a tip...cash for or bus/taxi fare home (most expensive bus/taxi ride you've ever heard of)...or a take-away...or (truthfully) to score (though I note they will try to conceal - alas, pitifully unsuccessfully - their addiction, until you know them better). And I confess, I usually oblige; yet I myself only earn enough money for fairly simple living (plus this ongoing expenditure, needless to say). ‘Go figure’, as Americans say. What a game; for them, 'on the game', and for us - who know shades of nuance to 'the dirty hobby' that non-participants couldn't imagine. I anyway thank you for your posts; it’s really good to read of another’s trials, observations, and indeed joys, of this ‘thing that we do’ – and (speaking for myself) will do (sensibly or not) until one can’t - with these particular street ladies (who are unique, I think, in how they deliciously serve our needs). Do keep posting.
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