Jealous controlling boyfriend?

 If you’re one of these shitheads, you can expect a thick load of cum and your girl's pussy that is not yours! we all go through this phase. We are all shitheads at one point. For this girl, her boyfriend does not know how to handle her. Even without the drugs being thrown in the mix, he’s abusive. I’ve never hit women. You must maintain an exorbitant amount of control not to hit them, because they can piss you off just as much as anybody.

One way to put this in perspective, is that you would not hit a bodybuilder or a cop or a bouncer, or any man that’s significantly tougher than you. But if you had a woman, well now you see my point. You hit them because you think you can get away with it. Most of the time these men can get away with it. For instance, this girl is being surveilled and controlled by her boyfriend at all times. He is the father of her three children. She feels that she has no control over the situation and can’t run away. It is a terrible situation to be in for a woman. For some extent for him too. As I said he comes from these old Latino traditions of patriarchal family, and he is not patriarch that can maintain control of his family.

I know this because I fucked her tonight. Girls don’t give pussy away if they don’t have to, but that family dynamic is really fucked up. I’m not improving, nor helping the situation, but then I don’t really have to. I do try to give some worthless advice that she should never tolerate anyone hitting her. He leaves her in his car while he works his night shift. I don’t think I’m the only man that goes and meets her at night. But I am definitely one of them. This is beyond his control.

In order for this family to heal, he needs to shed the jealousy and hatred, sand stop trying to control her life. She is going to continue to make bad decisions. All he can do is be there like an oasis for her. It's that simple. You alone decide who you want in your life, and then accept them as they are.