Ground apples

 I can't pick up women. It's too much effort for too much rejection. Some people settle for low hanging fruit. I go for the ground apples. The least amount of effort, and you’re still getting the same fruit. Come to think of it, I'm not in the orchard, playing the game. I just walk into the store and buy the damned thing.

That blonde at the club was introduced to me but we hung around. I really do suck at picking up women. But not the way you think. Women and men alike know what we like. The blonde at the club was attracted to a different guy. She liked him and gave him her number. The brunette was attracted to my friend. Another guy was hitting on her, but she prefers my friend. Why? Because we have preferences. That's just how it is. So, when I say I'm bad at picking up women, what time really saying is that there are certain women out there who are attracted to me and they are putting out signs to me that they are attracted, I am bad at picking up on those signals. A girl on Facebook told me that years ago she had a crush on me in high school. I wish I knew that! My life may have turned out differently had I known. 

So for those of you that are feeling lonely, just know that the ones who are attracted to you I have not found you. But they are out there. I’m not upset if girls at a club are not attracted to me. You want them to be, sure, but they are not the girls specifically looking for your type, the type they are attracted to.

For me it’s a search. You can pick up women. That part is easy. The hard part is finding women who are attracted to you. If you pick up a woman who is not attracted to you they will always leave you for someone that does attract them. This leads to high divorce rates, problems with relationships, clingy or abusive partners, etc.

All anyone really needs to do is improve their ability to notice when someone is attracted to them. In my case, any girl that looks like Ginger Lynn, who smiles at me.