Boyfriends and husbands.

These cuckold losers mean nothing to me. They provide an inconvenience to what would otherwise be a great fuck session. She and I were discussing adding her to my pornhub roster of  sluts. She agreed and even made plans to fuck me later. That gave me something to look forward to during the dreary work day. 

Then the boyfriend called from that number. 

"Hello?" 

"Who's this?"

"Who are you?"

"You called and texted this number!"

I hung up. Clearly, it was the shithead boyfriend. I can't advice these people. They have no control over their anger and jealousy, no control over themselves, and no control over their bitch. 

He called back, and texted insults to deaf ears. I'm not apathetic to his plight. I once found myself in similar situations. He has yet to learn that you cannot control the actions or desires of another. Being Latino does not help him. Traditional masculine vires counteract my philosophy of allowing women to be the sluts that they wish to be. For instance, they never married. She has three children. She claims they are all by him, and I have no reason to doubt that claim. So we will take these as known facts. He is the father of her three children. They had children a very early age for today’s modern couples. He knows she has a drug problem and free bases. I don’t believe he has a drug problem, but he knows that she doesn’t get her shit for free. The real mess in this equation is that you cannot control someone on drugs. He has failed to embrace the first rule: drugs come first! All my commenting and advice at this point is rendered moot. I know what he does not, and accept what he cannot. She will do whatever it takes to get high. Otherwise this would not be possible:

He created an environment where the love of his life is living in his car outside his house. She has left him for other men, has a tattoo of another's name on her chest, and is not having her needs meet, such as food, clothes, quality of life, etc. That’s why she was talking to me for half an hour trying to get $40 from me. I sent her 20. Obviously with plans of meeting up later to fuck. At one point I developed feelings for her. She played the same games with me, but I don’t have any stakes like he does. after nearly getting into a fistfight with some elderly man she was planning on fucking in front of me, I had time to reflect on my actions, and came to the conclusion that the bitch wasn’t worth it. Now I just enjoy the occasional fuck with her. All that shit she hast to unload is dumped upon that man who has no idea how to control a woman like this. Like most, he was brought up what’s the traditional ideas of a patriarchal family. These conservative notions will continue to fail him. 

BECAUSE drugs are involved, he has no real way of controlling her. He never did. His only solution is too just be there for her. What does that mean? It means he must treat her like a stray dog. She will come into and out of his life. When she is there, take care of her, feed her, make her happy to be there. Provide a place that is a refuge for the Hell she is forced to wander.